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by Tony Lauria
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The Aphorism Salon – Pay Attention
The trouble with most people is they don’t listen – TO THEMSELVES! They know Get-Rich-Quick schemes are exactly that, yet they continue to join and support them. It’s the “Something for Nothing” mentality.
Same thing goes for the Law of Attraction. The general expectation, after watching the movie THE SECRET, was to <POP> a thought in one’s head and voila! One’s Heart’s Desire would be manifest. Our Physical Universe just doesn’t work like that. While it’s true that your outer
world will shape itself to the inner world created by your thoughts, some deliberate action is required. And that’s what I’d like to address. Especially the idea of paying attention.
You see, there really is “Nothing for Nothing” or, “Everything has its Price”. And sometimes we pay for something in a currency other than money. We can pay in how and to what we bend our minds.
The Latin verb attendere is the root of our word attention, and it means “to turn or bend one’s mind towards“. Giving or paying attention is the clear, decisive act by the mind of taking possession of someone or something chosen out of several possibilities. ‘Paying attention’ conversely suggests ignoring some possibilities in order to deal effectively with the chosen object of your attention. It also suggests conscious control.
To purposefully attract into your life what you desire, you’d best get a handle on your attention. So I’ll ask you this: How much TV do you watch? What movies? Oh, just the news. I see, just enough to shake your confidence and put a little bit of fear into you. A dose of reality, huh?
The photo above shows John’s whiteboard in his salon. I’ve written about it before. This week’s aphorism hit me, as usual, right in the solar plexus. Interpretation: Life isn’t what you see on TV or hear on the radio or read in a newspaper, magazine or novel. Life is what you pay attention to, and consequently, attract.
If you’re not attracting what you desire, pay attention to what you’re paying attention to.
Among the things that don’t deserve your attention are: TV & radio, especially the news; newspapers; advertisements & billboards; shopping malls; people you have no interest in; excessive noise; driving; spam Email and junk mail; Self-criticism; and people telling you your dream of owning your life is not real.
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The Aphorism Salon – Aspiring to Inspire
In an earlier post entitled, “LIFE IS TOUGH. . . IT’S EVEN TOUGHER WHEN YOU’RE IGNORANT”, I wrote about the shop window displaying a whiteboard sharing such aphorisms. The owner of the shop, actually a hair salon, is John, a stocky, handsome man who set himself free from the “nightmare of living” to find the “joy of life”.
Our conversation was rich in wisdom. These bullets highlight some of what John has shared with me:
- “Look how miserable people seem. They walk around with a nightmare on their faces. They engage in competitive suffering. Listen to them: ‘You think you got it bad . . .’”
- “I was miserable once too. Bad marriage. There was love there but just because you love someone doesn’t mean they’re right for you. Maybe they’re not brining the best out of you.”
After an amicable divorce John sought his freedom. And joy.
- “You have to create your own happiness. It’s not handed to you. It’s a decision you have to make.”
- “You have to create your life. The way you desire it to be.”
I asked him where he found the brilliant aphorisms he posts, changing them about once a week in his salon window. “Here and there. From many sources. Wisdom is everywhere. You just have to look.”
- “To get what you want, help others get what they want.”
- “The more people you help get what they desire, the faster you’ll have your desires fulfilled.”
So here’s your invitation to visit this site regularly for more from John’s Aphorism Salon. Let me know what you think, like or don’t like. Thanks!



